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The Bad Boy/Bad Girl of Pain
Stigma #5: The Need for Pleasure

As a corollary to the idea that Central Pain patients seem "bad" because they aren't being quiet and brave about their pain, is the fact that since there is no satisfactory treatment for Central Pain, they may also need extra pleasure. Pleasure is a partial antidote to pain.  Psychologists tell us that people will work harder to avoid pain than to obtain pleasure.

What if the pain cannot be avoided. Does pleasure have any role? Of course it does. Not degraded pleasure, which will only add to the pain of the self, but wholesome pleasure of whatever variety. Central Pain patients should spoil themselves silly if pleasure of any kind affords relief from the torment.

Such self indulgence is sure to add to the bad boy/bad girl image, but if it allows enduring matters one more day at a time, then pleasant experiences are desirable, and may well be vital to survival of intractable pain. Beautiful music, pictures, pleasant company, and good food are desirable for someone whose skin and sense of touch can convey only torment and no pleasure. Are the blind entitled to hear beautiful music. Yes. Does it compensate? No, but it is worth the try.

Spouses and loved ones of Central Pain patients demonstrate their compassion when they consciously become aware that a life without any pleasure is impossible to endure. Efforts to bring pleasure of any kind into the lives of Central Pain patients is compassionate service. It will seem indulgent to many, but it may well be lifesaving.


Stigma #1: Not Fitting Into Common Perceptions Of Pain 
Stigma #2: Social Unacceptability
Stigma #3: Failure to Respond to Therapy
Stigma #4: Shame From Being Tortured
Stigma #5:
Need for Pleasure
Stigma #6: Negative Emotions
Stigma #7: Religiously Unacceptable Thoughts


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